Read this quote out loud, pause and think for a moment.
'your energy introduces you before you speak'
What do you think?
This sure made me think about the energy I (we) give off when I (we enter a place.
And that energy can be positive, enthusiastic, and uplifting or it can be quite opposite, negative and depressing. And that one is sure the one you should avoid at all times!
1. Be the one that inspires, with the energy alone
I always tend to inspire people to walk into spaces with the mentality of a winner. Yes, right ;). There are number of possibilities of you changing the entire environment with your presence alone. And that kind of energy you bring with you when you walk into a room tells a lot about the person you are and aspire to be. Remember that!
2. Avoid negativity all around
Nobody wants to be around those with negative energy. Therefore, having great energy about you creates a positive presence. And just think, again, have you ever been around people who do not match your energy, how did you feel? Right yes?! I remember in the past I used to have lots of people (who never matched my energy and dreams) around and it almost interfered with my way of doing things. Honestly, this you should copy!! Just get out of this toxicity in your live and breathe life at its fullest. It is the only way to go, to grow, to be better and become fearless.
3. First impressions?
As a society, we always believe that first impressions matter (the way you look, the way you address people, the way you dress - all those things tell a lot about the kind of person you are. Yes, trues. Therefore you can either command respect or disrespect just by carrying out yourself in a certain way. And to me, this is what energy is all about. The image about yourself you portray before saying a word. Authentic. Just the way you are. The way you feel.
4. Pause again. Who are you?
Which example are you? What kind of energy are you putting out when people meet you? Is it open or non - judgmental? When you meet people, what would you like them to think about you? How you show up, smile, stand, it all matters and can be felt. The energy you bring into space or life is yours to won. Y O U R S and yours only. No one can copy that and that is powerful as hell!!
5. Find that confidence within you again
Keep in mind as you step into each space that your confidence, joy, sadness, insecurities, positivity, energy, and exhaustion debut just as you do. Do not let the energy you expel zap others. Ok?
6. Be authentic you
Introduce yourself in a way that attracts and inspires others when you can. Be honest with your energy and clear in what you need to keep going.
And always let your energy be the thing that ignites others to action with or without your words.
You are amazing, just the way you are.
Until next time, S.
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