I strongly believe all women should embrace their feminine side and sensuality because it is not only about 'being sexy for someone else' but being confident in your own skin, feeling good about your body, body image and being unapologetic about it. And I mean it. (never apologies for who you are - you do not need to explain it but stand behind is. strong and firm!!). This is something all women deserve to feel good about. Obviously those things can come in various forms for different women, but I really believe you should never pass judgement on what one deems feminine and sensual for themselves. For me, that sure comes in the form of lace, silk, sheer stockings – and really, all things seductive however always classy, sensual and not vulgar - simply the latter does now go together, at least not in my world.
1. Every day effort
What i mean is to put effort into your everyday. I have no reservations or qualms about expressing myself through lingerie and all things sexy. In general, I believe everyone should put effort into how they look everyday, and trust me, you do not need all the perfection or heels or artificial lashes for that (God no...). Simply means you feel confident enough to rock your sneakers and sports clothes after the gym session. However, in the case of embracing my feminine side, I’m never shy about wearing lingerie even a simple bodysuit with no bra underneath. If I feel comfortable in it I will wear it. It is who I am and no-one can take that away from me. Even if that means I am wearing lingerie for myself. Just Taking the time to get ready is part of embracing that feminine side of mine. I will usually take my time in front of the mirror, not perfecting my lipstick or slipping on sexy heels, but rather embracing and loving what I see. I have goals to set up every day and this just helps me to guide through right direction. Beside I love fresh flowers (white roses are my favourite ;)), candles, essential oils and scented sticks and will always have those things around me :)
2. The power of lingerie
I honestly believe there is metamorphic power in lingerie. Something about it forces you to connect with your sensuality and take control of your femininity. It is something we all should own and try. However, if that is not for you, then find what it is and don’t be afraid to embrace it.
Every day, yes!
3. Find what 'drives' you daily
I always thought (until recently) that it might be a bit of a taboo to express what I knew to be my feminine side with sexy lingerie – especially coming from a quite conservative culture. I have since learned that there is nothing embarrassing about wanting to show that side of me by wearing and showcasing lingerie, bodysuits, expressing myself through classy photos – especially when it moves me internally and puts me at my best. The first step is always finding what that means for you and then figuring out how you can express it. Trust me, you will a lot about yourself.
4. Drown out to all who do not understand that way of expression
There will always be people who do not appreciate what you do. I understand that this ways of expression and a bit of a mix look between classy, sassy and sexy isn not for everyone and that there is even a stigma of being weak and pretentious.
If I am being true to my voice, inner feelings, and aesthetic (and you should be too) nothing else matters. If you find yourself seeking outside permission or validation, you should question if what you’re doing is true to who you are.
Until next time, S.
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